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I finally updated. Wow. I got rid of that magical list that EVERYONE wants to be on and some other things that happened a year ago. We do have a guild, and here is the link: ASK THE GAY GUYS GUILD Follow my guildelines.

Post in here, PM one of the above <if you are afraid to post in here due whatever reason>, or IM <using whatever service you use> one of us. We will try hard to answer all your questions.

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Rules
Basic guidelines for members and posters to remember.

1. Respect everyone and their opinions: This rule included harrassing members or posters. If continuing after you were told to stop and leave, a MOD will be informed.

2. No flaming: If the flaming is backed up by logical reasoning, then it is OK. But other than that, no. And members can flame if poster ask the questions listed in the FAQ.

3. Be literate: We can't understand if you post anything other than English.

4. Stop the fandom: We are tired of people coming in here and making random posts that say anything related to the following: "OMG gay guys are so nice", "like they are girly and we feel comfy around them", "omg clothes shopping fabulous you have fashion sense cut my hair", "i love gay guys heart ".

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FAQ
These are common questions that come up. Please read it and do not ask us these questions. Flaming will occur if these questions were asked.

Um... well. Reasons why females like gay guys are because they don't have to worry about sexual advances and getting their boobs stared at. Maybe trying to be more of a friend--then sneaking in and then doing the straight guy thing would work. Women aren't all our for sex <unlike some men> and would rather have some sort of caring relationship than a one night stand.
One more thing--try and pay attention and seem like you care what she's talking about--even if its something really boring like shoes. Next--beware of the trick questions, like: "Does this make me look fat?" and "Am I ugly?". Always answer no--and then give her reassurance. xd

Dear Gay guy,

What inspired you to start this thread, and what makes you so confident you won't attract legions of homophobic flamers?

Sincerely,
The Streaker King

Okay, here's a question.
Why do some gay men and straight men hate effeminate men? What's the deal, hating someone for their personality, the way they act and express themselves? What's so threatening about a slight lisp or a hand gesture that gets people - gay, straight alike - bond in a mutual hatred for some poor kid who just likes to have a little more fabulous than the rest?

What's with that whole rainbow pride deal? Are you trying to scare homphobes away from being colorful?

Well--effeminate men have properities of the female--and they are male too. Now--having a man who acts like a female try and hit on you is quite disturbing--and they will automatically hate them all just to prevent it. It's like when a good looking straight guy gets hit on by a very grotesque woman--its unwanted and frowned upon.

Theres no one real way to get a girl to like you its all up to the individual girls preferences im a bi girl (pay no attenition to my avator) so i would know the best thing i can say is be yourself as all girls respect that if you try to be someone else then everytime you are with her you will have to put on the act and will seem fake.

Also girls like understanding guys if she is going through a bad patch then be a freind for her and she will no she can come to you for comfort, this comfort can easily be changed to mean something more if you let her know how she feels, one way of doing this is either to tell her or to make subtle hints and then start to slowly make advances if she doesn't return them then you know she isn't interested but bear in mind she may still like you it might just be the wrong time for her the best way is to talk about it and you will know where you stand.

Some girls love the attention-if this is the case give her all the attention she needs, flirting etc, others dont like it and would ratehr do things properly, asking out and then meeting up before any flirting goes on myself i rather the more attention/active approach but thats not to say every girl is like that,

The only real advice i can give you is to be yourself and listen to what the girl wants from you she may only want you as a friend, she may want something more i cant tell you as each girl is different, the same with guys as one may like one thing, where as others dont.

Hope this helps

Love
Adamic

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